CSX #6638 by Life-Like. Purchased from Model Train Stuff after reading the review of these models at Spookshow. While the newer one is probably better all around, the older GP38 is a good starter locomotive and was on sale during July 2010.
It will need a coupler conversion kit from micro-trains (1128, 1129, or 1130). Also I've had trouble with the power pickups and got inspiration from these instructions on how to improve them.
Formerly Conrail #1991 and still wearing the livery. A model by Bachmann and also was on sale at MTS in November 2010. Another good road switcher to work on the RWRR.
CSX uses a lot of these on the prototype railroad in my area. Atlas has made some with the CSX livery.
A passenger train version of the GP40 used by NJ Transit and Metro North in New York on the Port Jervis line.
A passenger engine also used by NJ Transit. One can buy a custom shell for the LifeLike F40PH model from Imperial Hobby Productions.
This passenger engine was still in use in the 1990's on Amtrak lines through North Carolina. Lifelike made one, probably similar to the GP38 above. Though it has a Phase III livery, it should be able to go with the Streamlined Pullman-Standard 72-foot baggage and coach cars from Amtrak Phase I made by Con-Cor or Bachmann. Also the Corrugated coaches (such as the 72' baggage) might be appropriate too.
Another B-B locomotive that would fit into my concept. Atlas makes one with the light CSX livery.
I've considered trying to find a Thomas locomotive with the thought that it might interest the kids. I came across an article on About.com that talked about them. Unfortunately the sets are close to $100, which would be better spent on one of the three locomotives below...
4-6-0 Baldwin Ten-WheelerBachmann
More recently I've seen a 2 locomotive consist crossing the old rail bridge over the Cape Fear, usually heading into Wilmington. One day I was able to identify the following locomotives:
More recent still, I saw a consist with:
Another local train pulls covered hoppers and tankers to the Martin Marietta quarry in Castle Hayne.
In the spring of 2011 I spotted a unit train of open hoppers coming from the quarry, pulled by Dash 8's, and probably headed back to Hamlet.
August 2011 I saw a local at MP 366 pulled by CSX 8312, a SD40. This one had covered hoppers and tankers, most likely headed for Martin Marietta.
Early February 2012 a unit train with empty hoppers was heading past MP 367 back toward Davis Yard. Two big GE AC4400CW's were pulling, CSX #5224 and CSX #5313.
Find more CSX trains in the RR Picture Archives. Also you can find pictures at railpictures.net such as this one of a CSX coal train near Hamlet, NC, and this one of an Intermodal train near Charlotte (notice the rail bed and the grass around it).
Norfolk Southern also runs trains through NC, though not quite down to my area. This next one is a great picture of a GP38-2 in the rain . This picture of NS 5129 has a good view of the track-side scenery.